Single Parent Dating

Tips & Advice

Going online is probably the best way for a single parent to find new friends and, eventually, new romance. You can avoid most of the potential mistakes and problems by applying a little common sense to the situation, and of course by listening to your "inner voice" whenever it has something to say.

First and foremost, try never to spring any big surprises on your kids - if they are old enough to understand, chat to them informally, tell them what you are thinking of doing and why, explain how it could be of benefit to all of you as a family, and reassure them that, no matter what happens, they will always come first in your life. Be positive and upbeat, and the chances are they will go along with you and give you their support.

When writing your profile, be scrupulously honest. Take the time to explain your own situation, and the qualities you hope to find in your prospective partner. But don't come across as self-pitying or pessimistic. After all, you're not the only one in the single parent boat!

When you meet someone new it should be in a public place or as part of a group activity. Get to know them purely as a friend before you even consider dating them. Once you are happy with their character and their attitude towards family life, it's time to invite them into your home and gradually introduce them to your children. With a little luck, fun days out and family-oriented activities will establish lasting bonds, and bring about the quality of life you so desire.